Being both a wife and a mom is honestly the wildest ride I’ve ever been on. Some days I feel like superwoman, and other days… well, I’m just trying to remember the last time I drank my coffee while it was still hot. With a toddler in the mix, life is equal parts exhausting and hilarious, but it’s also the sweetest season I’ve ever lived through.

The Challenges No One Warned Me About

Okay, let’s be real—toddlers have endless energy. From sunup to sundown, my little one is climbing, running, asking for snacks, and keeping me on my toes. By the time bedtime rolls around, I’m usually more ready to crash than she is!

And then there’s the balance part. I love being a mom, but I’m also a wife—and sometimes it feels like I don’t have enough energy to give to both. I’ll spend my whole day focused on my daughter, and by the time my husband walks in, I’ve got maybe 10% battery left. And don’t even get me started on trying to squeeze in “me time.” That’s rare, but I’m learning it’s important.

The Joys That Make It All Worth It

But here’s the thing—being a wife and mom has brought me the kind of joy I never knew I needed. My daughter is at such a fun age right now. She’s learning new words, showing her little personality, and making me laugh daily (even when she’s being a handful). Seeing the world through her eyes is honestly magical.

And then there are those little family moments—the way my husband plays with her after dinner, the three of us curled up on the couch watching cartoons, or even just hearing her say “mama” in that sweet little voice. Those are the moments that make the sleepless nights and the endless laundry worth it.

In What I’m Learning (One Day at a Time)

I’ve realized that being a wife and mom isn’t about having it all together. Some days, the house is messy, dinner is whatever I can throw together, and I’m still in leggings. And that’s okay. What matters most is the love in our home. I’m learning to give myself grace, to laugh at the chaos, and to enjoy this season—even when it’s hard. My toddler won’t be little forever, and I don’t want to miss the joy of these days by stressing over the challenges. At the end of the day, it’s not perfect. But it’s ours. And that’s more than enough.