I’ve noticed people say a lot about women having babies later in life. You’ve probably heard terms like “geriatric pregnancy” or “advanced maternal age”—and yeah, they kind of make me cringe too. But honestly, having a baby after 35 is way more common these days, and it definitely comes with its own unique mix of strengths, challenges, and joys.
Motherhood doesn’t have an expiration date. Honestly, becoming a mom later in life gave me a perspective, resilience, and wisdom that younger me probably didn’t have. Here’s why I think being a mom over 35 is such a unique—and beautiful—experience.
1. You Know Yourself Better
By the time I reached 35 and beyond, I had lived enough to truly understand what matters. I spent my 20s and early 30s building my career, traveling, and discovering who I am. Now, that self-awareness makes parenting feel much more confident, instead of constantly second-guessing myself.
2. You Bring Life Experience Into Parenting
Parenting takes a lot of patience, problem-solving, and being able to roll with the punches. Those skills don’t just pop up out of nowhere—they come with time. Now that I’m a mom over 35, I find myself drawing on all my past experiences to handle the crazy, unpredictable stuff that comes with raising kids.
3. You May Have a Stronger Support System
As I’ve gotten older, my friendships, partnerships, and family ties have definitely deepened. Whether it’s my close group of girlfriends, a supportive partner, or even my work connections, I feel like I have a stronger, more solid community to lean on now that I’m over 35.
4. You Face Different Health Conversations
Being pregnant or raising a young child after 35 comes with certain health considerations. My doctor monitored me more closely during pregnancy, and I noticed my energy levels were not the same as in my twenties. Understanding this helped me prioritize my health for both myself and my child.
5. You’re Redefining the Narrative
Whenever I chose motherhood on my own timeline, I pushed back against outdated ideas of what being a mom “should” look like. Being a mom over 35, to me, meant that family didn’t have to fit into one mold—it was all about love, care, and commitment, not age.
6. You Appreciate the Little Things More
Being a mom over 35, I feel much more grateful. Maybe it’s because I know what it took to get here—waiting for the right partner, handling fertility issues, or just choosing to wait until I was ready. That journey makes small moments—like baby laughs, toddler hugs, or family meals—feel extra special.
Final Thoughts
Being a mom over 35 isn’t better or worse than being a mom at any other age—it’s just different. What makes it special for me is the mix of wisdom, resilience, and perspective I’ve gained along the way.
If you’re like me and started your mom journey a little later, just know you’re not behind. You’re right where you’re supposed to be, and honestly, our stories might just inspire other moms to embrace motherhood on their own schedule.
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